Startups Anonymous Est. 2013 · Read-only archive
Questions

Should I be out as a gay founder?

Will it hurt my chances with fundraising? Customer acquisition? Etc?

12 answers from the community

AAnonymous· Sep 12, 2014

I don't think it will in Silicon Valley. Maybe in other parts of the country that are more conservative it might. Keep in mind that Peter Thiel, who is one of Silicon Valley's most well known people is a gay man.

You'd actually be discriminated against less for being gay than for being a minority or a woman in Silicon Valley. If you're a gay white male, then you have it pretty easy in the tech world compared to non-whites or women in general.

AAnonymous· Sep 13, 2014

You were all good until the second paragraph. There are plenty of successful people of all kinds. Who you are should not stop what you want to do. Be yourself and do your startup. And Apple's Tim Cook is gay and hes doing alright.

AAnonymous· Sep 12, 2014

You don't have to advertise your sexual preferences to get funding. It doesn't even have to come up in any conversation remotely close to fundraising.

AAnonymous· Sep 12, 2014

+1

AAnonymous· Sep 12, 2014

I'm gay, and I see no reason to bring it up in a business context. Boston is unusual though in that personal lives aren't usually discussed much in negotiations, unlike much of the rest of the country; it's considered a bit awkward to do so before you've known someone for a while. I wouldn't go out and try to hide it by talking about your wife instead of partner, but you also don't want to make your pitch about your sexuality anyway, it should be about your company.

AAnonymous· Sep 14, 2014

It's irrelevant in my opinion. If you feel the need to mention it, to me, it would indicate you would want to be treat differently. Which i'm assuming you don't...

AAnonymous· Sep 15, 2014

Dude - nobody cares who you are having sex with. It's 2014, we're mostly all young and don't think about color and sex orientation as much as our grand parents did. Just be you

AAnonymous· Sep 15, 2014

It's just not an important subject for anyone other than you. My sister is gay and she's thinks and talks about it way more than we do... It just doesnt matter

AAnonymous· Sep 16, 2014

hehe, wat.

AAnonymous· Sep 25, 2014

Just be yourself.

AAnonymous· Sep 26, 2014

Unless you're planning to pitch at the urinals in a gay disco, I don't see what your sexuality has to do with anything.

Or are you really asking whether you can use it to gain undue advantage? Guess you can try pitching in an overtly flaming manner to rainbow dudes like Peter Thiel and Keith Rabois; they might dig you, therefore your startup.

AAnonymous· Feb 10, 2017

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