Over a year ago I started a startup with a good friend of mine. My idea was to launch an online service in another speaking country, so I invited my friend to join the startup as he speaks the language fluently and we can work together well. So I thought…
At this point I am very much doubting my co founder’s motivation and dedication to make this startup work. I want to meet up at least twice a week (we are both working day jobs) but I feel like I am the only one taking initiative to meet up. If I don’t propose a meeting we’re not working on the startup, it’s that simple. Also, during these meeting it feels like I am always the one coming up with ideas, proposing to-do’s etc. Even though I am the tech guy – developing the platform – I expect my cofounder to contact possible clients, work on our sales strategy etc. Or, at least ask if he can start working on something or ask how my work is progressing. I feel like an employer…
Even though I am working a full time job, I sacrifice a considerable amount of my free time to complete my to-do’s and continue developing our product/platform. Besides our meetings, I am working on the startup a couple of nights a week + weekends. My cofounder seems to only use our meetings to work on his to-do’s, instead of getting his share done before meeting up.
When we do meet up, things don’t always go smooth, for instance:
- We decided to work on the startup at 7pm. I sent a reminder at around 5pm, after which he replies he’ll be a bit later. At around 7.30pm I call him to get his ETA. He says he’s on his way, arriving at around 8.30pm. At 9.20pm he picks up his stuff and leaves, without any notice. He has to work early the next day…
- We decided to work on the startup during the weekend. We talk about our meeting on friday, when he tells me he made afternoon plans (even though our plans were made earlier). So we can only work till 1pm. Not great, but I still want to get things done during the morning. At 1pm his “plans” show up and he leaves, after having worked on the startup for 1.5h.
- My cofounder agrees to meet up the next day (to make up for the day before). I propose a time, but receive no reply. So the next day I get up early and call to inform about our meeting. I cannot reach my cofounder. I hear from his girlfriend that he is away, working on his car.
I cannot run a business like this. I want to launch our product the right way. I understand that still working day jobs means time is limited. But I seem to get a lot of things done, so why isn’t my cofounder? I’ve already initiated multiple talks about how we should be contributing more time to the startup, but it doesn’t seem to help… Should I give it another try (demanding more effort and results), or is this just not going to work (together)?